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With Catherine Roebuck & Jackie Aston

A relationship podcast for couples and individuals who want better communication, deeper emotional intimacy, and a more fulfilling sex life.

Why Do Couples Get Stuck in Power Struggles?

Do you tend to feel “above” or “below” your partner in your relationship?

In this video, we explore a powerful dynamic that shows up in many couples: taking a one-up (superior) or one-down (inferior) position.

Over time, they can make relationships feel exhausting, inauthentic, and disconnected.

Why Giving Your Partner the Benefit of the Doubt Isn't Always the Right Call

Why Giving Your Partner the Benefit of the Doubt Isn't Always the Right Call

You Don't Have to Be Mean to Be Taken Seriously

You Don't Have to Be Mean to Be Taken Seriously

When Sex Becomes a Power Struggle Instead of a Connection

When Sex Becomes a Power Struggle Instead of a Connection

I'm a Good Partner. So Why Does Sex Feel Like a Chore?

I'm a Good Partner. So Why Does Sex Feel Like a Chore?

How to Share Good News Without Feeling Guilty or Ashamed

How to Share Good News Without Feeling Guilty or Ashamed

When Needing Constant Validation Becomes A Problem

When Needing Constant Validation Becomes A Problem

How to Trust Yourself Without Constant Reassurance | Self-Trust, Anxiety & Relationships

How to Trust Yourself Without Constant Reassurance | Self-Trust, Anxiety & Relationships

Why Losing Yourself in a Relationship Kills Attraction

Why Losing Yourself in a Relationship Kills Attraction

Is Your Partner Actually Changing — Or Just Telling You They Are?

Is Your Partner Actually Changing — Or Just Telling You They Are?

Why Do I feel Lonely in My Relationship? (Even Though We Talk All the Time)

Why Do I feel Lonely in My Relationship? (Even Though We Talk All the Time)

Why Do I Feel Resentful When We Compromise?

Why Do I Feel Resentful When We Compromise?

How to Get Your Partner to Take Accountability (Without More Fights)

How to Get Your Partner to Take Accountability (Without More Fights)

Why Sex Gets Better With Age (And How to Get There Sooner)

Why Sex Gets Better With Age (And How to Get There Sooner)

Emotional Fusion in Relationships: When Your Partner’s Feelings Become Yours

Emotional Fusion in Relationships: When Your Partner’s Feelings Become Yours

How to Get Your Partner to Take Accountability (Without More Fights)

How to Get Your Partner to Take Accountability (Without More Fights)

How Do I Know If I'm Sacrificing Too Much in My Relationship?

How Do I Know If I'm Sacrificing Too Much in My Relationship?

Why Do I Feel Lonely in My Relationship Even Though We Talk All the Time?

Why Do I Feel Lonely in My Relationship Even Though We Talk All the Time?

Why Do I Feel Lonely in My Relationship Even Though We Talk All the Time?

Why Do I Feel Lonely in My Relationship Even Though We Talk All the Time?

Are You Over-Functioning in Your Relationship? The Hidden Cost of “Borrowed Functioning”

Are You Over-Functioning in Your Relationship? The Hidden Cost of “Borrowed Functioning”

Why Some Couples Choose Stability Over Intimacy in Relationships

Why Some Couples Choose Stability Over Intimacy in Relationships

Are You Settling for Less Connection in Your Relationship?

Are You Settling for Less Connection in Your Relationship?

Can You Ever Truly Forgive? Letting Go of Resentment Without Forgetting the Hurt

Can You Ever Truly Forgive? Letting Go of Resentment Without Forgetting the Hurt

Emotional Fusion in Relationships: When Your Partner’s Feelings Become Yours

Emotional Fusion in Relationships: When Your Partner’s Feelings Become Yours